Loyalty.

Staying loyal to someone.
What exactly does that mean?

When you think about it, if you really love someone, from the bottom of your heart, then staying loyal comes easy.
You aren't tempted to lie, or cheat, even if seems so simple and so easy at the time.
You aren't tempted by anything.
And you want nothing else but to be with that person.
It's love.

Ok, but how about this.
The person you love, isn't loyal to you....

They say they love you, but they don't show it.
They go out with other people, lie to you about it, blow you off for no reason.
They don't just want to be with you.
They control you, because they don't trust you.
That isn't love.

So what do you do?

If you love them, then nothing they do will bother you.
Pretty much, they can do whatever they want, just as long as they come back to you at the end of the day, right?
THAT ISN'T LOVE.
THAT'S ABUSE.

They don't respect you, or appreciate you.
They expect you to always be there, like a back up.
And it's not because of anything you have done.
It's all them.

You gotta really think about it.
Are they worth all the shit they put you through?
Is it worth always being hurt?
Do you really love them that much?

No amount of 'loyalty' will ever change how they act around you.
You can be as loyal and caring and loving as possible, but that won't change them.
They aren't loyal to you, never will be.

Love is a win-win situation.
This isn't one of those.

Right now, you have to ask.
Are they really the one for you?
Someone that doesnt trust you, uses you, hurts you constantly.
They don't love you like you love them.

They don't deserve you.

If you're never happy loving them, then that isn't love either.
And you can't just accept that of them.
Find someone who will treat you the same as you treat them.
Find someone worth your time.
Find someone who makes you always feel wanted.

Someone like me.